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GRIEF

Today, I want to speak about grief.  Grief is different things to different people Grief doesn't have the same look for everyone as you think it should. When you meet someone who's grieving, don't tell them" God understands or it's God's will" they don't need to hear that. What they need is for you to be there, you can sit quietly and just be there physically OR you can be there mentally for them whenever they want to vent, but by all means be there. Not everyone has found a healthy way to deal with their grief so, be kind. People are grieving for one thing or the other daily. You're not the "grief police" who tells people how to grief OR how long their grieving should be OR what steps their grieving process should follow (take it down a notch! 😒). It's not an easy process, grieving... I don't think it's one that ends because you have this love that you want to give to these people, but you cannot give it to them anymore ...