Emotional Condoms

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Heart broken, mood in the gutters,  questions plaguing your mind. Why this again? Why me? 

Truth is, It's not you. I know you're pretty/handsome enough, kind enough,  funny enough. You are in fact everything and more. It's just that(no one knows why exactly)Love picks some people and it doesn't pick others, (so, you could be all these things and more, yet love wouldn't "find" you). Love happens in the most unexpected places and at the most unexpected times.

So, till your time and season comes, till it picks you, you might as well sit back and enjoy the ride because nothing you do is going to make it pick you faster.

This is why it is important to have emotional condoms. 

What this does is to offer you some sort of protection while also allowing you the freedom to be you. The whole emotional condom thing is not so that you don't fall so fast. But so that you don't move so fast and you forget how amazing you are while you're on the ride.

Till that time, in all your endeavors, instead of launching pebbles at castles. Put all the pebbles together to form one big rock and launch it at the castle. Then, they'll have to pay attention.

What have you got to lose? 

Love Always, 
Princess ❤ 

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